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Men who have sex with men (MSM)
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Can gay men give blood?
Gay and bisexual men are not automatically prevented from giving blood.
Men who own sex with men and who have had the equal partner for 3 months or more and meet our other eligibility criteria are able to give blood.
Anyone who has had anal sex with a fresh partner or multiple partners in the last three months, regardless of their gender or their partner’s gender, must wait 3 months before donating.
We evaluate your eligibility to donate blood based solely on your own individual experiences, making the process fairer for everyone.
If you are taking pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) or post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) you will be unable to give blood. If you stop taking PrEP or PEP, you will need to wait 3 months before you can give blood.
We appreciate that any deferral is disappointing if you want to save lives by giving blood.
If you have previously been unable to grant blood because of the guidelines and would appreciate to donate, please dial us on 0300 123 23 23. One of our team can review the new guidelines with you and, if eligible, book your next appointment.
Why is there a 3-month wait after sex?
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Sexual health for same-sex attracted and bisexual men
Having unprotected penetrative sex is the most likely way to pass on a sexually transmitted infection (STI).
Using a condom helps defend against HIV and lowers the risk of getting many other STIs.
If you’re a man having sex with men (MSM), without condoms and with someone recent, you should have an STI and HIV assess every 3 months, otherwise, it should be at least once a year. This can be done at a sexual health clinic (SHC) or genitourinary medicine (GUM) clinic. This is important, as some STIs do not bring about any symptoms.
Hepatitis A
Hepatitis A is a liver infection that's spread by a virus in poo.
Hepatitis A is uncommon in the UK but you can acquire it through sex, including oral-anal sex ("rimming") and giving oral sex after anal sex. MSM with multiple partners are particularly at risk. You can also get it through contaminated food and drink.
Symptoms of hepatitis A can manifest up to 8 weeks after sex and involve tiredness and feeling sick (nausea).
Hepatitis A is not usually life-threatening and most people make a occupied recovery within a couple of months.
MSM can dodge getting hepatitis A by:
- washing hands after sex (bottom, groin a
The history of the gay male identity
Sex Issue 2023The rise of the homosexual identity is tied to industrialization and increased capitalistic practices in the late 19th century.
By Margaret Giordano -
Concepts of sex and sexuality are not stable. They are constantly in flux and switching as our community does. This will be a very brief overview of how male homosexual identity has changed over time in America since some of the first colonial settlements.
Puritan culture in the 1600s was known for its strict rules governing acceptable sex. In their eyes, the only acceptable circumstances for sex to occur were within marriage and for strictly procreative purposes. Anything else was deeply looked down upon. Gay acts were encompassed in the list of deeds that were prohibited, along with acts such as premarital sex, extramarital affairs and anal and oral sex among opposite-sex couplings. However, lgbtq+ acts were not equated with a homosexual identity. Indeed, the concept of homosexuality and a homosexual identity didn’t even exist yet. The punishment for homosexual acts was much the equal as they were for other prohibited sexual acts — repent, accept your punishment, be it
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Would you describe yourself as douche-curious? Perhaps you’ve been douching for a while but are looking for pointers. However seasoned you are at putting things up your butt, there’s always something new to learn! So we’ve place together a beginner’s guide to anal douching with everything you need to know when you want to initiate squirting down below. 😉
What is anal douching?
Douching is the act of shooting a jet of warm water or a saline answer into the rectum to clean it out before sex. Douching uses several types of devices to achieve this, each referred to as a ‘douche’. We’ll cover these in more detail below.
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Should you douche?
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